By Kathleen Christensen, PsyD  Guest Columnist

Part I

I love cats and have had them most of my life. 

As a psychologist I have enjoyed learning comparative psychology—the study of psychology across species.  For most of my adult life, my home has been an experimental lab for the feline species.

I currently have two 3 year old sister cats who are American shorthair breed, Mariah and Sophia.  They were raised in a shelter from the time they were weaned until last March, when they joined me in my home (lab).

Cat Cage

Cat Cage

Sophia and Mariah

Sophia and Mariah on Guard

Since then they have been working on adapting to life in a household. 

Not an easy feat as previously they lived in a 6ft x 5ft x 6 ft wire cage with two or three other cats.  Being naturally curious about their environment, this was less than an ideal situation.  At first their claws kept getting caught on soft surfaces when they ran, which was humorous to watch.   They would have that look of surprise when they found themselves facing the opposite direction of where they were running.  Wonder what they thought with all their freedom to explore everything and anything?

They hid in my bedroom for the first two weeks. 

Perhaps fearing their new found freedom to “roam about” the premises, hiding most likely felt like security to them.  I didn’t let them have access to the rest of the house because of my fear of what they would get into that wouldn’t occur to me that I should cat proof.  I used rope lights and cheap mirrors that normally hang on doors to light up and make visually accessible spots under furniture where they hid.  I wonder what they thought the first time they saw those lights and mirrors.  Then I would coax them out at night when I would come home, with those toys with feathers on a string attached to a wand.

Feather Cat Toy

Feather Cat Toy with a Wand

If I could get them used to me in places they felt safe, I could slowly get them to accept my petting them. 

One cat was more social then the other.  Both cats would panic if picked up.  I’m sure everyone knows what a cat does when panicked, especially if you are trying to hold them…ouchy ouchy ouchy.

Here’s a short video on the American Shorthair Breed of cat.

Tune in again to find out how they are doing in their new surroundings in my home (lab).

 

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Lots of Dogs

Dogs, Dogs and More Dogs

This is a personal entry – about the dogs in our lives.  Because this is personal you will not find any links here to click on – only information about the dogs in our family. From little on there has always been a dog in the house.

Whenever we couldn’t have a dog, there was something missing in the house.  After marriage, to a man who also loves dogs, we had a dog in the house, sometimes two or more.  Over the years, the beloved dogs would have to be put down due to illness or disease.   After a time, it became increasingly more difficult to say goodbye to a faithful, loving friend with a tail that wags all the time.  So I do not want any more dogs – it is just too hard to say goodbye.  Our two children have also been dog lovers and have had dogs in their respective homes.  Over the past 10-15 years, however, every time there has been a disturbance in their respective homes, their dogs come to us.  We currently have four dogs in the house now – none of whom are dogs that we picked out.  So when a “disturbance” occurs in the “force” the only thing we know for sure is this:  No matter what is happening in that house, a dog is coming our way – guaranteed.  So whether I want another dog in the house or not, a dog comes our way.

 

Which comes first – the chicken or the egg?  The first dog came to us from our daughter.  She purchased a new set of brother-sister Bassett Hounds 6 years ago.

Elvis the Bassett Hound

The Aggressive Wimp

The male, Elvis, joined us 4-5 years ago.  And, yes, Elvis has not left the building. He is somewhat aggressive and really cannot be around children or many other dogs.  So being with us (prebabyboomers) is perfect.  Daisy, his sister, stayed with our daughter.  Although Elvis is, at times, a lean mean fighting machine, for the most part he is nothing but a wimp.  Enjoy an original rendition of ‘Hound Dog” from Elvis.

 

The next dog coming our way is Lucky, a beagle type dog.  He belongs to our son.  Lucky is perhaps the mellowest dog we have ever had.

A Very Lucky Dog

Lucky Dog in his favorite chair

He had to be because of Elvis’ aggressive nature.   He is also the most loveable dog we have now.  He is considered a Senior dog by our Vet and we really do not know how old he is.  He has the strangest bark though – not exactly sure how to describe it but other beagle owners know the bark and can recognize it very clearly.

 

The next dog to join us is Elvis’ sister, Daisy.  She has been with us for about 6 months, came with our daughter and granddaughter when they moved in last summer.

Daisy in Her Favorite Chair

Is it time to get up yet?

Daisy also has a mellow personality but don’t try to disturb her at night when she is sleeping – then she looks and sounds like Elvis.  It is interesting how two litter mates can be so very different.  Daisy is a lover dog, like Lucky.

 

The last dog to join us is Lyndee, our son’s dog.  We think she is part smooth collie with a little bit of whippet in her.  Lyndee is about 5 years old – we think – not really sure.  Lyndee has been with us for the past month.  We hope either our daughter-in-law or our son will be able to take her back within the next month or so.  Lyndee is the largest, height-wise, of all the dogs we have.

Lyndee resting on the bed

Lyndee Taking a Nap on the Bed

She is pretty mellow unless there is another dog nearby outside, or another kind of animal.  She is pretty respectful of our other dogs.  Although she did put Elvis in his place the other day – perhaps a good thing for Elvis – he really isn’t the King of the Hill after all.

Top Dog

The King Of The Hill

 

 

 

 

 

I’m sure some of you are probably thinking we are crazy having all these dogs etc.  Please understand that the man I married has a beacon inside of him that attracts all dogs – everywhere – and absolutely loves dogs and will never be without one.  So – it is kinda like, love me, love my dog!  What are your experiences with dogs – both good and bad.  Share your joys and heartaches with your pets with the rest of us.  We’d love to hear all about it.

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Is your cat curious?  Most are.  They are fun to watch as they play and they can find the most interesting things to play with too.  Simple things.  Everyday things.  Things you don’t want them to play with as well.  Cats can entertain themselves for hours and then sleep for many more hours.  They are intelligent members of your household but very independent members of your household.  It has been said, “Dogs have owners and Cats have staff”.  I know, that brings a smile to your face :0)))!  Isn’t it interesting that as a cat owner (staff member?) you look for ways and things that might provide entertainment for your cat?  There are all kinds of scratching posts, nail grooming gadgets etc. out there.  Then you have the really fancy types of scratching posts.  And what about the interesting little beds you can attach to a window so your cat can look outside and try to figure out a way to get at that bird in the tree next to the window?  There are some interesting things at www.felineboudoir.com. Probably the most intriguing things in this online store are in the area of wall scapes.  One can literally decorate your walls with a playground for your cat.

Wall scape 3 feet high

3 Ft Wall Scape

It is better than having an aquarium – and good exercise for your cat too.

Here’s what a three foot high wall scape looks like.  You can get these in different heights and space them where ever you think you cat might like to roam.  You can stagger these pieces and combine them with wall mount beds, including a corner wall mount bed and the best part:  you can customize the color scheme, providing the manufacturer has the colors you want.  A great playground for your cat.

You and your cat will enjoy this area of your home.  No matter what – cats – and all pets for that matter – require good care.  Providing them with stimulation is one way to take good care of your cat.  How do you entertain your cat (or perhaps how does your cat entertain you)?  What are your tips for entertaining your cat?

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Dogs and More Dogs

Well I knew it would be too good to be true or to last.  On Friday the 13th of August, we put one of our three dogs down due to age, poor eyesight and hearing and questionable health.  Down to two dogs and perhaps not so much barking, less food to buy, less dog hair etc. etc. etc.  There must be something about the number 3 relative to dogs in this house.  Last Friday, August 20th, we inherited our daughter’s dog, Daisy.  She moved into a place where she could not keep her dog.  Since we have Daisy’s brother, Elvis, and have had Daisy before, it was just natural that Daisy would become part of our family again.  And Daisy hasn’t missed a beat since her return – she knows the ropes and has adjusted nicely here.  Both Daisy and Elvis are Bassett Hounds, about 4 years old, from the same litter.  I have to say though Daisy is slightly more trained than Elvis in the social graces.  It’s just my humble opinion but she doesn’t jump on you as much, doesn’t bark as much etc.  The fact that she is just about as wide as she is tall may account for the “not jumping” part though.  Her brother Elvis is much leaner and seems to have a bit more energy too.  They both have the characteristic long ears – and the ear infections that go along with this breed.

Our other dog, Lucky, has adjusted too.  Lucky, the Beagle, loves to play and Daisy loves to play as well.  Elvis, although he likes to play, is sometimes a bit too aggressive with another dog, other than Daisy of course.  So we never leave him alone with Lucky unless we are supervising.  Dogs have been a part of our lives throughout our 46 years of marriage.  The kids grew up with them.  They have always been in the house and a part of the family – “children with fur” as I refer to them.  They are always glad to see you come home, they snuggle up with you perhaps when you need someone to do that to you, and they never walk away from you.  Cats are another story though.  I have never been a cat person but I have a good friend who is and she would never have a dog.  Dogs have owners – Cats have staff :0)!

What makes a pet important in one’s life?  What does a pet provide for you?  Something to ponder?

Tikki

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